Let's Talk About the Shit Nobody Wants to Talk About.
Podcasts. YouTube. Guest Appearances. Real Conversations. No Bullshit.
High-conflict divorce. Narcissistic behavior. Family court chaos. Parallel parenting. Blended families. And what happens when leaving a toxic relationship doesn't actually end the toxicity.
These are the conversations we're having at Unfuck Your Coparenting.
I'm Livi North, a parallel parenting coach, content creator, and someone who has lived—and continues to live—the realities of high-conflict coparenting.
I talk about the stuff people are usually too uncomfortable to say out loud. The manipulation nobody believes. The family court system that doesn't always make sense. The impossible expectations placed on parents. And how to stop letting someone else's bullshit run your life.
Sometimes it's educational. Sometimes it's uncomfortable. Sometimes we laugh at how completely fucking absurd it all is.
But the goal is always the same: helping people recognize the patterns, take back their power, and build a life that doesn't revolve around their ex.
The Unfuck Your Coparenting Podcast
Because divorce doesn't end the bullshit. Sometimes it just gives it a microphone.
Forget the recycled advice about putting your differences aside and just getting along for the kids.
That sounds great. Until you're dealing with someone who treats every parenting decision like a hostage negotiation.
On the Unfuck Your Coparenting podcast, we get into what high-conflict coparenting actually looks like—and, more importantly, what you can do about it.
From real-life scenarios and practical strategies to conversations with attorneys, therapists, and other experts, we're breaking down the dynamics that keep people stuck in chaos.
No sugarcoating. No pretending everyone is operating in good faith. Just honest conversations, useful tools, and the occasional well-deserved WTF.
Want me on your podcast?
Let’s have a conversation your audience will actually remember.
If your audience is tired of hearing that the secret to successful coparenting is just better communication, we're probably going to get along.
I bring a combination of lived experience, strategic thinking, practical coaching, and a willingness to say the things other people tiptoe around.
My background is in strategic planning, systems design, and performance management. Now I apply that same analytical approach to high-conflict coparenting—recognizing patterns, understanding what drives escalation, and helping people build systems that work even when the other parent refuses to cooperate.
I'm not here to diagnose everyone's ex or pretend there are magical words that make difficult people reasonable.
I'm here to have real conversations about why conventional advice fails, what actually works, and how people can stop organizing their entire existence around someone else's behavior.
And yes, I swear. But I can behave when the audience requires it.
Watch Me Break It Down on YouTube
Because sometimes you need someone to explain what the actual fuck just happened.
Ever read a message from your ex and think, Is this manipulation, or am I completely losing my mind?
That's the kind of shit we unpack on YouTube.
From high-conflict communication and emotional triggers to narcissistic behaviors, custody disputes, and the strange little mind games that make coparenting exhausting, I break down the patterns and explain what to do instead of getting sucked back in.
Sometimes it's a deep dive. Sometimes it's a quick reality check.
Either way, you'll walk away understanding the dynamic a little better—and hopefully feeling a lot less inclined to participate in it.
Livi Unfiltered: Guest Appearances & Conversations
I have thoughts. Apparently, other people want to hear them too.
I love a good conversation—especially one that challenges the traditional narrative around divorce, coparenting, narcissistic abuse, and rebuilding your life.
I've joined other hosts, experts, and creators to talk about the messy reality of leaving toxic relationships, navigating family court, protecting children from conflict, and learning to stop participating in someone else's chaos.
Here are some of those conversations.
Featured Episodes
I have thoughts. Apparently, other people want to hear them too.
I love a good conversation—especially one that challenges the traditional narrative around divorce, coparenting, narcissistic abuse, and rebuilding your life.
I've joined other hosts, experts, and creators to talk about the messy reality of leaving toxic relationships, navigating family court, protecting children from conflict, and learning to stop participating in someone else's chaos.
Here are some of those conversations.