Hi! I’m Livi - founder of Unfuck Your Co-Parenting
I created Unfuck Your Co-Parenting because I know exactly what it’s like to parent with someone who turns everything into a battlefield.
For years, I tried to reason with manipulation, smooth over chaos, and keep the peace — all while slowly losing mine. I did what everyone tells you to do: communicate more, compromise harder, “rise above.” It didn’t work, because none of it addresses the truth — you can’t coparent with someone who’s more interested in control than cooperation.
So I stopped trying to fix the impossible and started rebuilding something I could control:
Myself.
I learned how to protect my energy, communicate strategically, and create mental safety for me and my kids. That process — part healing, part logistics, part radical acceptance and boundary work — changed everything. It’s what I now teach my clients to do.
As a coach, I’m direct, practical, and compassionate.
I don’t hand out empty advice or tell you to “just ignore it.” I help you understand the patterns, identify your weak spots, and build real systems to protect your time, your sanity, and your peace.
My background is in strategic planning and conflict management, which means I know how to break down complicated, high-stress situations into steps that actually work. I combine that with lived experience from years inside a high-conflict dynamic — so when I say I get it, I mean it.
My clients come to me exhausted, anxious, and overextended. They leave with a plan, confidence in their boundaries, and a sense of calm they thought they’d never get back.
Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about “winning.”
